10 Signs That She’s Into You
When some women are interested in men, they may be forward and upfront about their feelings. The worst that can happen is the man will reject them, but for some, the idea of being turned down is too much to bear. Instead of being open about how they feel, they drop subtle hints until a guy makes a move. The problem with this approach is that not all guys will be able to read a girl’s signals or know if her actions are saying “I’m interested in you” or “leave me alone.” In order for this to work, men need to be aware of the little things that women will do to show their interest and get their attention without being obvious.
Here are 10 signs that you can look for if you want to know if a woman is into you or not.
She laughs at you
People love to laugh, whether they are male or female. If you have a great sense of humor, that is a huge plus. If a woman laughs at you, you are definitely scoring points, but if she makes an effort to lock eyes while she is laughing, this is a good sign.
She checks you out
It is sometimes hard for people to hide their attraction to another person. With this being the case, when a woman is into you, she will most likely check you out a few times. It could be your eyes, hair, mouth or even your muscles she is drawn to, but the point is, if she is checking you out, there is a chance she wants you.
She makes eye contact
Eye contact can be uncomfortable for some, but when a woman is interested in you, she will not shy away from locking eye with you. Take advantage of these moments, and look into her eyes. She may be trying to establish a connection, so if you like her, just go with it.
She gets dolled up for you
There is no need for women to get dolled up everyday, and not everyone does. But, if she knows she is going to run into her crush, she will put some effort into her appearance. Depending on the circumstances, you can’t assume that she is only dressed nice because of you, but if it is a situation where the two of you are hanging out, it would be safe to make that assumption.
She confides in you
Women tend to be very private people when they are just meeting someone. It is not attractive to go spilling your guts to strangers or tell the your deepest, darkest secrets, so for the most part, they don’t reveal too much. If a woman takes the time to tell you about herself, that means she wants you to get to know her better. She’s interested in you, but in order for things to go anywhere, you need to know things about one another. Her opening up to you is the start of that. She is risking you being turned off, but in the end, if all goes well, you will be attracted to her even more.
She touches your body
Arms, hands, shoulders, knees. There are a number of places that a woman will try to touch you during conversation. Touching is a sign of affection, but men can also see this as a sign that a woman likes him. Don’t be afraid to reciprocate and touch her back. You don’t want to be creepy and touch her inappropriately, so maybe something small like touching her hand will suffice.
She sits close to you
A girl will only get so close if she is not interested in you because she may not want to give you the wrong idea. If she is into you, she will probably sit a little bit closer than any other girls. This is her attempt to mark her territory and prevent other females from approaching you.
She scans your face
There is probably one or a few things about your face that your crush finds attractive. Maybe you have eyes that she gets lost in or a set of kissable lips? Whatever it may be, she will likely be scanning your face and admiring your looks whenever you are together.
She initiates conversation
It is always a struggle when two people want to text each other, but don’t want to initiate conversation. Society has made people think that the first person to text is weaker or more sensitive, but it really means they are brave. The ice is never going to be broken if no one takes that first step, so if a girl texts or calls you first, she probably likes you at least a little. Don’t let her start the conversation every time you talk, because she may get confused about your feelings for her. Every once in awhile, be sure to step up to the plate and shoot her a text before she gets the chance to.
She wants to learn more about you
No one is going to waste their time hearing about someone else’s life unless they genuinely have an interest in the person they are learning about. This is your chance to let her know who you really are, so don’t be afraid to share stories that show her how kind, caring and sweet you can be. You want to appeal to her and the best way to do this is to let her know what you are really about.
You may expect people to be forward and open about what they’re feeling and what they want, but not everyone is comfortable going after the man or woman of their dreams. When people fail to be upfront about their feelings, they often try to convey things through small acts and gestures. Women may be hard to read, but that doesn’t mean it is impossible to do. Part of picking up their signs and signals requires men to pay close attention. If you are able to do that, then you may be able to recognize that the woman you have been pining over has actually been seeking your attention.