Approaching Someone in Real Life

Approaching a Man or Woman

 

The thought of meeting someone in real life has become such a rarity due to technology taking over! Everyone is so consumed by their smart phone that we all forget what it is like to actually approach someone. Gasp! Saying hello has become so hard! It doesn’t have to be. We live in a big world with single people everywhere! Follow these tips and the cute guy or girl you see at Starbucks, may just be your next love.

 

  • Smile and Make Eye Contact

Man or woman- give a sweet smile and hold eye contact for 5 seconds. Seems like forever but it gives the signal that you are approachable and interested!

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  • Walk up and introduce yourself.

Seems simple enough! You can start by saying, “ Excuse me..” No one really remembers how you started the conversation anyway

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  • Be confident

Show confidence and avoid hesitation. Everyone responds to confidence and security. There is nothing more attractive then a person who knows who they are and is proud of it

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  • Be Bold

Ask them out! Get the digits. Go for it! The time is now to take a chance. Big risk, Big reward

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Follow these tips when you are out and about. Real life encounters open an entire dating pool that is untouched. You would be surprised how many awesome people you can meet

Love Liars

Ever feel like someone you are dating may not be who they say they are? Do you ever get that feeling that maybe someone is too good to be true? Not to sound like a pessimist, as I am the biggest romantic at heart there is, but love liars do exist. Some men and women will put on a pretty face and tell you what you want to hear! They are not forth coming  with who they are, their past, their dating history, and some information that should be shared out of respect and transparency. Follow the tips below to really screen the men and women you begin to date! Safety, honesty, and having both eyes open is the smart way to date. Quite frankly, it is the only way to successfully date, leading you to everlasting love.

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  • Only Fools Rush In

Be patient and take your time! No need to rush so fast and have an instant relationship. Get to know one another. Learn about each other on a non surface level

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  • Ask Important Questions

People love to talk about themselves! Make sure to ask questions that really depict the person’s character, interests, and morals. It does not take too long, to really get an idea of someone’s true self

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  • Pay Attention to How They Treat Others

How someone treats someone, will eventually be how you are treated. Pay attention to how your date treats the waiter, the barista, a nearby patron, etc. If they show disrespect, you can be sure they will disrespect you one day

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I hope these tips help! Get to know your date, their likes and dislikes, and who they really are! Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of frogs first! True love does exist and there are so many awesome people in the world. You just have to be cautious of those who lie in love.

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