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Fashion Tips For Men

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Fashion Tips for Men

 

Fellas! Time to bring your A game to dates. Not just your charm, but how you dress. Women love a man with style and swagger, so check your closet and yourself 😉 Here are some tips that will definitely impress your date and have you on the road to dating success

 

  • Invest in some awesome jeans and killer shoes. Women appreciate style and class. In the words of George Michael, Sometimes the clothes do make the manMan in Black Leather Zip-up Jacket and Black Jeans Wearing Black Sunglasses
  • A nice watch. A sleek and effortless fashion statement

Man in Formal Suit Jacket Holding His Necktie

  • A leather wallet. Investing in a trendy and timeless wallet is key. No woman wants to see a beaten up piece of velcro. You feel me?

Man Holding Brown Leather Bi-fold Wallet With Money in It

  • A well fitted button up shirt. Women appreciate a tailored man that puts in effort. This is a perfect go to!

Man Wearing Black Notch Lapel Suit Jacket

  • A Polo- who doesn’t love a preppy guy?!

Man Wearing Blue Lacoste Polo Shirt and Silver-colored Analog Watch

  • Cologne- women swoon over a man that smells amazing. Invest in a masculine and powerful scent. This will make any woman weak in the knees

Lacoste Essential Fragrance Bottle

  • Lastly, exude confidence. 41% of women find this to be the most attractive trait

 

Man Wearing Black Formal Suit Jacket

Follow these tips and you will be one step closer to the love you seek!

 

Deal Killers For a First Date

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Sometimes you really only get one shot with a date. That dream girl or dream guy. They say, you only have one chance to make a first impression. This stands true! As nerve wracking as dating is in general, it is important to put your best foot forward and be prepared to really be the best version of yourself. Sometimes, there is not second chance. You can’t turn back time and redo things that you once did on your date. Soooo… be prepared and go into a date with a positive attitude and most importantly, a big smile. Follow the tips below and your first impression will be a lasting one.

  • Be Positive

Stay away from negative and heavy topics.  No one wants to hear about your horrific ex, how catastrophic dating is, how you hate your job, boss, life, car..blah blah,blah. Check Please!

Woman in White Shirt Beside Teacup

  • Don’t bring up future dates with other people

This is a huge turn off. No one wants to hear about the 5 or 6 other potentials you are juggling. Not a good look. Your date does not want to feel like just a number. Plus, no need to talk about it. If it goes well, you may not need to go out with others!

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  • Checking your phone

Ahhh! This is the worst. 60% of people consider this to be deal breaker. This is not challenging to understand. Your date wants your full attention and for you to be present. You don’t want to appear disinterested and that your phone addiction is real.

Four People Holding Mobile Phones
Person Wearing Apple Watch
  • Don’t Get Drunk

This seems like an obvious one, but throwing back several drinks to calm the nerves, is not the best choice. Stick to a two drink maximum. You do not want to embarrass yourself and get sloppy drunk. That will guarantee not being asked out again. Not the goal, right?

Woman and Man Cheering Glass Cup Beside Table during Night Time

  • Wearing a lame t-shirt or sloppy outfit

It is important to dress to impress. Men, Ed Hardy is over. No graphic tees, please! Show up in something that shows confidence and effort. Ladies, show up in something that is feminine and exudes your beauty.  No potato sacks or baggy tees. Trust me on this.

Women's White Long Sleeve Shirt

These tips will make your dating life successful and have you get a second, third, and fourth date! Maybe even that awesome relationship you want 😉

Signs A Man Is Ready To Commit

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I bet there are sooo many women who have found themselves dating ” the unavailable man, Mr. Peter Pan, and the ultimate commitment phobe, who just can’t seem to pull the trigger. We all have been there! However, there are signs to pay attention to in order to know if you are dealing with the right type of men that you are wanting to attract into your life. Below are some tips to stay aware of when trying to find that diamond in the ruff.

  • Know his intention

Men who just want to “hang out” or ” are just looking to meet new friends” These terms all indicate a man that may not be on the relationship seeking path. When men use terms such as “date” it shows commitment and planning. No man who is ready for love will be afraid to use the word “date.”

Photography of Couple Holding Hands

  • Reliable

Pay attention if a man gives you notice. If a man texts you an hour before asking you out, it may show signs of not being serious. If he gives plenty of notice and puts thought into the day and time, then that is something to really pay attention to because he is committed and showing follow through. It shows he values your time and whether or not you are a priority in his life

Woman in White Shirt Beside Teacup

 

  • Communication

You had an amazing date! It was so much fun and the night seemed just perfect. Then….crickets… not a word! This can mean more than you think. He is either not serious about finding a serious relationship or just simply, he is just not that into you.

 

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  • Exclusive Time

When a man makes time for you and only you, that is a great sign of a man seeking a commitment. He wants to get to know you on an emotional and deeper level. He is not in a rush for physicality, but establishing a foundation that will lead to love.

Man and Woman in Front of Horizon

What Men Really Need From Women

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What do men really need in a relationship and from their partner? It may not be exactly what you think! It is much more complicated than one would imagine. Every man is different and therefore has different wants and needs. Our culture is continuing to change and so are relationships. Relationships can be so complicated and are never the same day to day. The following tips will help guide you and create awareness to understanding your partner on a deeper level.

  • Having a warm and open heart

Men at times, have difficulty sharing their feelings, emotions, wants, needs, and fears. More than anything, they want a woman who they can be vulnerable with. They want a partner that they can share their deepest layer with. Someone whose heart is open to listen and be receptive.

Portrait of Happy Young Woman Using Mobile Phone in City

  • Time

Men love women who are good listeners and give them their time. Men will shut down if you do not make the time to listen to them or time for them in general. They need undivided and uninterrupted time spent. Men need this in order to really express who they are. Being positive and creating an upbeat space, really draws your man closer.

Man and Woman Sitting on Bench

  • Respect

All people want respect. For men, this is huge! Men are always wanting to be appreciated and feel valued. They want to be encouraged and feel you are always rooting for them.

Man Hugging a Woman Wearing Black Tank Top

  • Freedom

Men want space and time for themselves. They don’t want to feel they are on a leash 24/7. They want to enjoy their hobbies, interests, and friends. Respecting their time and space, will definitely make your relationship last.

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  • Being Yourself

Men love when you are just being you! Not pretending or trying so hard to be the ideal woman. They just want you to be your true self and no one else.

Woman in Blue Glitter V-neck Sleeveless Dress

  • Attraction

Men and women need to be attracted to their partner. This is so important and crucial. Without this, there is no foundation for a romantic connection.

Couple Sitting on Red Car