I bet there are sooo many women who have found themselves dating ” the unavailable man, Mr. Peter Pan, and the ultimate commitment phobe, who just can’t seem to pull the trigger. We all have been there! However, there are signs to pay attention to in order to know if you are dealing with the right type of men that you are wanting to attract into your life. Below are some tips to stay aware of when trying to find that diamond in the ruff.
Know his intention
Men who just want to “hang out” or ” are just looking to meet new friends” These terms all indicate a man that may not be on the relationship seeking path. When men use terms such as “date” it shows commitment and planning. No man who is ready for love will be afraid to use the word “date.”
Pay attention if a man gives you notice. If a man texts you an hour before asking you out, it may show signs of not being serious. If he gives plenty of notice and puts thought into the day and time, then that is something to really pay attention to because he is committed and showing follow through. It shows he values your time and whether or not you are a priority in his life
You had an amazing date! It was so much fun and the night seemed just perfect. Then….crickets… not a word! This can mean more than you think. He is either not serious about finding a serious relationship or just simply, he is just not that into you.
When a man makes time for you and only you, that is a great sign of a man seeking a commitment. He wants to get to know you on an emotional and deeper level. He is not in a rush for physicality, but establishing a foundation that will lead to love.
What do men really need in a relationship and from their partner? It may not be exactly what you think! It is much more complicated than one would imagine. Every man is different and therefore has different wants and needs. Our culture is continuing to change and so are relationships. Relationships can be so complicated and are never the same day to day. The following tips will help guide you and create awareness to understanding your partner on a deeper level.
Having a warm and open heart
Men at times, have difficulty sharing their feelings, emotions, wants, needs, and fears. More than anything, they want a woman who they can be vulnerable with. They want a partner that they can share their deepest layer with. Someone whose heart is open to listen and be receptive.
Men love women who are good listeners and give them their time. Men will shut down if you do not make the time to listen to them or time for them in general. They need undivided and uninterrupted time spent. Men need this in order to really express who they are. Being positive and creating an upbeat space, really draws your man closer.
All people want respect. For men, this is huge! Men are always wanting to be appreciated and feel valued. They want to be encouraged and feel you are always rooting for them.
Men want space and time for themselves. They don’t want to feel they are on a leash 24/7. They want to enjoy their hobbies, interests, and friends. Respecting their time and space, will definitely make your relationship last.
Men love when you are just being you! Not pretending or trying so hard to be the ideal woman. They just want you to be your true self and no one else.
Men and women need to be attracted to their partner. This is so important and crucial. Without this, there is no foundation for a romantic connection.