Netflix & Chill Perfect Flicks For Valentine’s Day

Netflix and chill is a powerful sexual setup; it allows you to be close with your partner relaxed. Here are the ten perfect flicks on this neat little streaming service, which contains sexy twists indie -ish vibe.

#10 Adventureland

Aah.. who doesn’t love awkward romances to get them in the mood. That’s Adventureland in a nutshell, but it pays enormous dividends when as if by Hollywood magic, something clicks, and  Elise turns from Gorgish flounders to full-blown sex fish.

Adventureland is sweet, genuine, and hilarious. There’s a reality to the central relationship that says welcome as it is uncommon in your usual comedy, and it’s sure to fan the flames of any potential romance with the hole.

#9 They Came Together

Are you looking for a tale of romance, yet you’re cynical of romantic comedies? Then 2014’s They Came Together might be right up your street. The film is a biting parody of the traditional rom-com finding humor in the genre’s schmaltzy absurdity. 

Molly and Joel meet when Joel’s corporate Candy Company threatens to shut down Molly’s quirky indie candy shop. Predictably the two fall in love, but the relationship doesn’t last long before it’s hit with some serious turbulence. The whole thing is entirely tongue-in-cheek, recognizing and subverting traditional rom-com tropes while remaining simultaneously intimate yet raunchy.

They came together is the perfect pick if you and your date are looking for a romantic comedy with a difference or if you’re trying to broadcast subliminal messages via the title.

#8 Chocolat

2000’s Chocolat tells the story of Juliet, who opens up a chocolate shop in a repressed French village changing the lives of everyone who lives there through her delicious confectionery. Later, Johnny Depp shows up in the village, and the two begin a passionate fling. 

The whole film is entirely sensual as a metaphor for sexual desire from the foreign setting to the real chocolate. Chocolat is so smooth and exotic that it’s tough to resist. It’s a sweet aphrodisiac, and all of the chocolate on display is bound to give viewers an appetite for something a bit more than a bar of Cadbury’s.

#7 Serendipity

When it comes to a slightly more vintage rom-com then Serendipity is a great pick. The premise might be cheesy, following two people who become attracted to each other despite already having partners and deciding that if they’re ever to meet again, they’ll fall in love. But the relationship between Jonathon and Sarah is entirely captivating. 

Serendipity trades explicit sex jokes in general tackiness for genuine humor and tenderness. There’s a magic to the uncertainty that is sure to leap from the screen to reality resulting in something memorable.

#6 Vanilla Sky

Vanilla Sky sees Tom Cruise’s David disfigured in a car crash. It begins with him telling his life story in a court of law. That might seem a bit severe for Valentine’s Day, but the flashback which makes up the whole of the film contains a genuinely enthralling love story, and there are more than enough mysteries to keep things exciting. 

There’s also the fact that the movie makes Tom Cruise seem like a bit of a d*ck, meaning that your date will see you as vastly more likable, leading to a boost in self-confidence for both parties.

#5 Amelie

If French is the language of love, then watch Amelie as it’s one of my favorite films of all time and follows a shy waitress who attempts to change the lives of those around her for the better. The movie is airy and whimsical while being frequently sweet and funny. It contains a central mystery that ends in romance, so it’s the perfect thing to build to a bit of amorous tension and intrigue, with Amelie as possible to appear artsy and cultured while getting to enjoy a legitimately charming film. You really can’t go wrong.

#4 Blue Is The Warmest Color

Blue Is The Warmest Color is a French romantic coming-of-age drama about two teenagers who gradually become romantically involved, freely exploring their sexuality. The movie is a masterful study of what it’s like to gain confidence in your sexual identity and promote openness and honesty amongst people regarding their wants and desires. Clocking in almost three hours even your date is very likely to become distracted at some point during its rather explicit run, Blue Is The Warmest Color is so liberating it’s bound to prompt a frank, open conversation about whether or not this Netflix is going to lead to any chill.

#3 Punch Drunk Love

If, for some reason, your date fancies watching an Adam Sandler film, then don’t worry here is some slop for you to stick on and hope they get a clue. 

Punch Drunk Love follows Adam Sandler as the painfully socially anxious Barry Egan and his journey towards self-worth.

#2 The English Teacher

Released in 2013, The English Teacher stars Julianne Moore as the titular educator Linda Sinclair who lives in Kingston, Pennsylvania. When a former pupil shows up after failing to succeed as a playwright, Linda convinces him to produce his play at her school. Things get complicated when the two wind up sleeping together, culminating in a passionate secretive affair. 

Throughout the movie, there are plenty of great gags. As ever, it’s impossible to fault Moore’s performance more importantly though the whole thing is deliciously to move touching on fantasies and repressed desire. It’s the perfect movie to make two people throw caution to the wind and just get down to business.

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#1 The Wolf Of Wolfstreet

This movie glorifies sex, partying, and fast living so intensely that it’s practically impossible not to become a little enticed to it all yourself besides there’s only so long that you can stare at Leonardo DiCaprio and Margot Robbie before becoming borderline aroused at the very least. 

If you and your date have already seen the movie, you’re in luck. The film’s extreme length, precisely three hours, and frantic presentation are likely to stir The Wolf of Wang Street into action. And if you haven’t, the first watch is potent enough to make the vast majority of people a little impulsive.

7 Things Men Love to See in a Women’s Profile

7 Things Men Love To See in Women’s Profile

One of the leading App Developer recently surveyed one of their major products online, and they found the number one thing that men are looking for in women’s dating profiles. 

A caring nature was essential; a sense of humor was important; positivity was important as well. But the one thing they found that stood out that men are looking for is fun.

You might want to check these seven tips on making your profile stand out to men and making you sound super, super fun.

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Tip #1: Have a Great Opening Line

First impressions matter a lot in real life, and they matter just as much online. So you want to start your profile off with a bang.

“My life is like a Broadway spectacular. It’s exciting. It slows down at times, but it’s always good fun.”

“Hanging out with me is like a good game of footie, unpredictable, can get messy, but always a great time.”

“My personality is like a good mixed tape – spontaneous, sometimes over-energetic, but you still can’t help but smile.”

When you start your profile with a killer opening line, you already give the impression of how much fun you’re going to be.

Tip #2: Show You’re Down To Earth With Examples!

Everyone likes to say they’re down to earth, and down to earth is a great thing to have because we know that people who are down to earth and fun to hang out with, but everyone says they’re down to earth. It’s not believable if you just say you want to show that you’re down to earth by giving examples, and one of the best ways to do this is to make playful fun of yourself.

“My cooking abilities lack some diversity, but if a bad bowl of finely cut apples is your thing, this girl has you covered.”

“I’m an architecture nerd at heart and dance a little… a lot when I see Latvian art deco of the twenties.”

“I love arcade games, but unfortunately suck at them. So if you let me win without me knowing, I’ll know you’re a special kind of man.”

You can also dress up something you have that you might think is boring and present it in a fun way.

“I’m an accountant by profession, but I promise I’m still fun, though it is Design that has my heart.”

Tip #3: Add “Contrast Statements”

This is where you take something that’s kind of weird about you, that your friends think is very strange about you, and you put it into one sentence by contrasting the two aspects of your personality that don’t make sense together.

“I love books, but I seem to have an adversity to reading.”

“I love flying but hate heights.”

“I’ve got no fear of public speaking, but asking the air hostess for a second biscuit on a plane scares the bejeezus out of me.”

Tip# 4: Don’t Say, What You Don’t Want

It’s tempting online if you’ve had some bad experiences to make statements like these…

“Don’t bother messaging if you’re only after one thing.”

“If you’re less than six feet tall, don’t waste both of our time.”

“Tired of guys who can’t call a woman and don’t know how to be a gentleman.”

The problem is, imagine if a guy made statements like these…

“Don’t bother messaging me If you are not at least a D-cup.”

“Please be able to hold a conversation. Cannot deal with any more bimbos.”

“Tired of women who think the man has to do everything.”

It doesn’t exactly make you want to message him, does it? Make sure you keep out of your profile anything that says what you don’t want. It does not make you seem fun to hang out with.

Tip #5: Add Some Fun Goals

Remember, men want to become part of your exciting life. If you can make your life, life with you seems more exciting for him than his single life; he will want to commit like that. Put some fun goals into your profile that you’re excited for and show how passionate you are for them.

“Currently planning a trip to Morton Island, but in the longer term, a trip to Milan in Italy to explore my heritage is a dream I can’t wait to make a reality.”

“Punked to be preparing for my next big rowing adventure. I can’t wait to be back on the banks of the Yarra. Being free on the water is my idea of heaven.”

“I’m looking forward to competing in the Australian titles in August, but not before I conquer my fear of sharks at the underwater world this June.”

Tip #6: Show Gratefulness Rather Than Expectations

Always make sure to do a small section at the end’s profile, 25 to 30% of your profile on what you’re looking for in a guy. But you want to make sure you phrase it as you will be grateful if you find it, not you’re expecting it. Imagine the difference if you write, “I’ll only date men who love what they do” versus “There’s nothing I find more attractive than passion.” In one, you’re showing, you expect it. In another, you’re showing that you’re grateful for it. Take these other examples.

“You don’t have to be a chiseled model, but I do value health and would love to meet someone who does too.”

“Honesty and kindness are way sexier to me than a good job title.”

“Love a man who knows what he wants and has a plan to get there.”

Both of those shows that you’re appreciating and grateful for those traits when you find them rather than saying you’re expecting them.

Tip #7: Finish, Strong!

Just as you want to start strong and make a great first impression, you want to finish strong as well. Say something that makes you sound like a lot of fun to hang out with, and then give a call to action. Tell the guy to message you or invite him to take action and contact you.

“Massive brownie points if you know more Simpsons quotes than me if you think you have a chance of outwitting me and willing to have my beautiful dog sniff you all over, I’d love to hear from you.”

“You’ll get a date if you can beat me at a game of Yahtzee. If you’re up for some serious five dice gambling or just want to eat burritos as much as me, make sure your message.”

“Bonus points if you’ll come to a burlesque show with me; I’ve never been.”

“If you wouldn’t mind an adventure around L. A and are happy to lose at arcade games to me; I’d love to hear from you.”

Those are the seven things you can do to make your profile a ton of fun. Remember, read through your face at the end, and if you can read it and say, “I sound like so much fun to hang out with,” then you are doing a great job. Make sure you subscribe as well. 

How to Date During Quarantine

How to Date During Quarantine

Dating has changed, that’s for sure, and everyone is getting used to the new normal in life. But as this is unchartered territory, you might want a few tips on how to date during a pandemic.

Tip #1: This is not a roadblock but an opportunity

The first thing that you need to do is that you need to understand that Covid is not a roadblock to you finding love; this is a new opportunity. It is an opportunity to either take a break from dating or change how to communicate with your dates only. If you just focus on the fear that you’re going to miss out on love or that the world will end and you’re going to die alone, then obviously, your anxiety levels will be high. But more than anything, you’re going to lose perspective on the whole situation. Just because you can’t see someone or you can’t go on a date for a couple of weeks, it doesn’t have to be a bad thing. This is an opportunity to do a self-assessment first and ask yourself, what are my reasons for dating? 

Am I ready to date? Should I even be dating at this time? 

If you can see this as an opportunity to have a little bit of self-reflection on your intentions to find love, it will give you more clarity.

Tip #2: UP the conversation

It’s time to get old school. Remember, back in the day, before we even had texting or the internet, we used just to pick up the phone and call people. People still build relationships. We have a massive communication breakdown in society hence why so many people are struggling with love. Again, this is an opportunity to get to know the person you are dating or if you have started the conversation with them and you never had a chance to meet up, then use this time to get to know them even better. It’s almost like, love is blind, right where we don’t expect to meet the person until later. 

If you could focus on just getting to know them through either phone calls or face timing, talking to them daily, you’re going to be able to strengthen that connection. It also means that you will know more about them without the pressure of “first dating” can bring, without those expectations, and without the intimacy.

This will be key during this time because many people go out and date and get intimate soon.  As the relationship experts suggest, it is essential to hold back on intimacy for some time so that you can get to know who you’re intimate with. You’re prepared for the consequences after intimacy. 

Tip #3: Send more selfies and visuals

This does not mean to send nudes to your date. Just pick up the phone and FaceTime or do Skype or send selfies to each other. It doesn’t have to be sexual. Make it a mixture of really casual shots. Do a mix of photos that represent different dates you might have had. Some selfies should be a little more on the flirty side or a bit of a sexy side. But in that context, sexy doesn’t mean showing up the skin and all. 

If you can give them the mixture of casual date photos and more formal date photos, then it’s almost like, “this is how I would see you in real life when we have casual dates.” You can still do all you’re doing instead, though, is doing it through a phone camera instead of being there in person with each other. 

Tip #4: Get creative with your dating style

If you’re in a long-distance relationship, you’re probably used to all of this. You’re probably like, “ahh, 14 days of not seeing, that’s nothing! Try 14 months” You need to be creative in a way that you can still interact with each other. There is face timing, texting, and calling. Getting creative means going on a date with each other but making it a video date. You can have your dinner in front of the computer screen or front of the phone screen.

This will be an excellent test for the person you are dating or the person you are starting to get to know. It will show how much effort they’re willing to make to be able to court you. Circumstantially, you’re both being put in a position where if you don’t make an effort and don’t get creative, then things aren’t going to go anywhere.

We have become a generation that is lazy when it comes to dating and relationships; hence why everyone just texts instead of doing phone calls or just go to each other in action. This is an opportunity to work out and make your dates fun and exciting through a video screen while getting to know each other.  

Tip #5: Think long term, don’t just react

One of the things that people tend to do when they’re put into an environment out of their control or a crisis or whether there’s a lot of fear going around, we get desperate and irrational. So we just say “yes” to anyone, or we say “yes” to the past again. 

Just because you’re in quarantine, it is not an opportunity to go and invite your ex or reconnect with your ex. Don’t go and get caught up in the circumstances without realizing that this too shall pass. People tend to react to a situation, but they don’t recognize that responding to something still has consequences. So, if all of a sudden you build something with an ex, then once we’re all let out of our houses again, you realize, “hang on a second, I don’t want to keep things happening with my ex.” You’ve then gotta fix that situation. Instead of having more damage control to deal with, just be aware of who you are talking to. 

There will be so many active people on apps as expected because we now have a lot more time to fiddle on our phones. But just because you can talk to certain guys or girls out there doesn’t mean you should. Stay focused, and accountable. Stay in your lane. Remember who you want to date, why you want to date, what type of relationship you ideally want to build. Don’t deviate from that just because you’ve now got a little more fear, or you’re being put under pressure, or you’ve had this withdrawal from dating. Not every conversation is a conversation that we should engage in. 

Tip #6: Use high-interactive dating apps

We’ve seen some massive changes in 2020, but one thing has remained the same: people are still flocking to the best dating sites to find connections. Luckily, the best dating sites and apps appear to be adapting at a rapid clip to help fill the need for human connection even when we need to distance responsibly socially. One of the best dating apps you can still use to find love even in quarantine is The Catch Game App.

 The Catch lets women pick men based on their personalities, as revealed by their answers to questions posed by the woman themselves. Unlike apps such as Bumble, Tinder, and Hinge, The Catch has figured out a way to make people look more deeply into who might be a good match. And it gamifies the dating, uh, game.

Tips on Holiday Dating and Social Events

The Holiday Season is fast approaching, Thanksgiving is just around the corner and all of the Christmas Parties will begin.While singles often dread being solo over the holidays, the truth is the holidays are one of the busiest times of the year for dating. Whether it’s due to holiday breakups or New Year’s resolutions. Christmas and February are when the most singles are online seeking a match. With this type of dating traffic, the holidays are not only perfect for gathering with your current loved ones, but also the time to seek out your future loved one

Now, we will be talking about dating during the holidays and share 8 dating tips in a classy way.

Tip #1: Present Yourself In A Classy Way

What you wear and your body language says a lot about you. Dress for the occasion that you are going to in the environment. If you’re going to Mom and Dad’s house and it’s a house party where everyone’s going to dress casual, this is not the time that you want to put on a skin type short dress body con with a plunging neckline. It just is not going to look appropriate. You’re going to stand out like an eyesore so dress for the occasion that you are going to. 

Also, body language is huge. Make sure you’re smiling, have good posture, and make eye contact with people when you are greeting them. When you’re in conversation don’t be making eye contact with your cell phone. If you want people to say yes to you, it’s all in how you project yourself. Always remember, people are making a perception of you within seconds of you walking into the environment that the party is at.

Tip #2: Stay Off Your Cell Phone

Even if other people are on their phones, it always looks more proper and more classy if you have your cell phone put away. A lot of times we will see a table full of people with cellphones everywhere but is it necessary just because everyone’s doing it doesn’t mean that you need to. Put the Cell phone away.

Tip #3: Arrive a Few Minutes Early, On Time, But Never Late

If dinner is at two o’clock, then by golly that means you’re ready for dinner at two o’clock. Your coat is off, you’ve turned in the dish that you made to pass, you’ve gone to the restroom to freshen up, and you’re ready to go at two o’clock. 

During the holidays, it’s understandable that there are some cocktail parties that start at 7:00 or 8:00 at night and they’re going to go all night long,that is when you can make an exception. But when it is a dinner engagement, that is much different and there’s a time that you should be there.

Also, if you have an RSVP waiting to turn back in, make sure you get on that. When we don’t RSVP to an event it really shows that we are irresponsible and you never want anyone to think that way about you. That is not keeping it classy during the holidays or any other time of the year.

Tip #4: Offer To Help

When you arrive, always ask the host “What can I do to help?”, “Would you like me to do this?”. If you see something that needs to be done during the party, let’s say some garbage that needs to be emptied, don’t hesitate to approach the host and ask where you can get a garbage bag. Always be that guest and it goes a long way. 

Tip #5: Bring A Hostess Gift

That is always such a nice gesture. Don’t complicate it, it is not that hard. Just keep it simple. 

A lot of times when we go to a party we do know a little bit about the host and hostess, so if you know they like wine, a bottle of wine is a great gift. You could get a tin of cookies. Flowers are great as well. 

What you have to be cautious of is you never want to take a hostess gift that is going to put the hostess in a position where they have to do something with it. So you don’t want to walk in with a bouquet of flowers that they now have to go find a vase and cut the stems. Anything that you take should be easy for the hostess to set to the side and look at it later after the party is over.

Tip #6: Speak ill Of No One

Just don’t do it. And if someone else is, find something else to do with your time. The other thing, don’t speak negative about anything. It’s just not the time and no one wants to hear it. If you are giving off negative energy, that’s exactly what you are going to get back. Again, how do you want to project yourself? Do you want people to say yes to you? Or you want people to kind of work their way away from you? Don’t give off that negative complaining behaviour and attitude. There’s just no time for it. 

Tip #7: Do Not Be A High Maintenance Dining Guest

We have a lot of people with food sensitivities, you didn’t choose that. We understand for those of us don’t have sensitivities but there’s a lot that people can do. When we say about high- maintenance dining, we’re not saying that if you have food sensitivities, you’re high maintenance. I think it’s important that if you have some severe allergies to certain foods, if you have not communicated that to the hostess, do it ahead of time or bring some food that you could eat if there’s something that you can’t. 

The high maintenance part is when we draw attention to ourselves. So there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to eat certain things. There’s nothing wrong with being choosy about your food. It’s what you do with it. There are some people that just draw so much attention to themselves. In a restaurant, they will hold the wait staff up forever because they’re modifying this, they’re modifying that, they’re doing this, they’re doing that. Again, there’s picky eating, and there’s food sensitivities.

Tip #8: Check Your Emotions and Manage Them

Don’t have a bad attitude. If you and your spouse got into a little disagreement en route to Thanksgiving or to a Christmas Party, leave it in the car, no one wants to know about it. We all have bad days, we all have bad moods, we offer to get things and to turn around, and maybe that sets you off. Just accept these things do happen, put on a smiling face, have a good time.

A Top Catch In India

Who are the most eligible Bachelor and Bachelorettes in India?

The Catch, a popular dating app that has gotten a lot of great traction in USA,  just launched a new Android app in India.  With that, we sought out to find high quality men and women who we deem an Ultimate Catch.

We are excited to launch our first feature…

Please meet  Simran Bharti


Simran Bharti, Age 24 

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Current Residence or City: Delhi (NCR), India

Work: Content Producer & Talent for a Lifestyle Channel in a Media Company named Rusk Media
3 Things You Look for in a guy/girl
  Loyalty, Sense of Humour, Good Taste in Music
Pet peeves: Lack of personal hygiene, Patriarchial Mindset & Unwillingness to change that, and Not a good listener.
Favorite Food: Chicken Lasagna & White Sauce Pasta
Favorite Band: Led Zeppelin, Aerosmith, Queen, Pink Floyd & The Kinks to name a few.

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How Does The Catch Work? The Catch gives the main control to the host user, it is also a multi-player game where women get to ask men questions they care about. Up to four men are hand-picked for each game based on their profiles. Unlike other apps, the male contestants are able to avoid open rejection, as their answers are anonymous, enabling personality to be as important as appearance and credentials.

“Dating is much more than just a swipe right or left based on looks.  People are made to feel special and important in the act of getting to know each other, which is why The Bachelor is so successful. Both bring back essence of dating, chivalry, flirtation, and capture first date jitters through their gaming concept ending with a process of elimination.”says Chris Bukowski, famed alumnus of the hit TV Show “The Bachelor” franchise, and The Catch supporter.”



Interested in being in our Top Bachelor/Bachelorette List?  Please email us at support@thecatch.co

Am I Too Picky?

Am I too picky? Im sure you have asked yourself that question, one too many times! Seeing love all around you, the holidays are quickly approaching, engagements seeming to be everywhere…why am I single? Am I really that picky? Is a man with a full head of hair and teeth too much to ask for?!

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On a serious note, no, you are not too picky. In fact, I can’t stand that question. It is 100% ok to have preferences, standards, and to set the bar high. We are talking about a life partner, right? Having standards that are realistic is what matters. If you have to have a supermodel that has perfectly white teeth, a shredded body, and millions in the bank, then maybe you need to reevaluate.

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You are not perfect, therefore, you can’t expect perfection. I always recommend, choose two physical characteristics that really stand out to you. If you like a tall man, focus on height and one more quality. Choose 5 non negotiable inner qualities that you want in a partner. Focus on these traits. Embody these traits! If you want someone who is kind, generous, loving, active.. you need to be all of the things too! Focus on becoming the best version of yourself.

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Knowing what you want is so important, while staying open to possibilities. Maybe your guy is 5’11 instead of 6 feet but hilarious and has the best smile. You can live with that, right?  So, stay open, have fun in the process, and love will soon be tapping you on the shoulder.

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Love Vs Fear

Are you struggling being single? Do you feel that you put in a ton of effort but still have no dates, no men, no NOTHING? It is not that you are meant to be single, called to be single, or that the world is holding out on you. In fact, you are meant to have love! It is for you. It is your birthright. So, if you are looking for a sign, this is your sign. Love is just around the corner. It is about choosing love, being love, and most importantly, believing in love. Follow these tips below, and claim the love that is waiting for you!

  • In all moments, realize you can choose love or fear. Fear is the most common problem when single. Your ego tells you that you can’t have love, that maybe it is not meant for you, that there are no quality men or women, etc, etc. You in those moments of fear based thoughts, can choose love! See yourself as love and it will be here before you know it!

 

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  • Love is not just for the special people. Love is for all! Remember that no one is more deserving for a soulmate. We all are! In times of doubt, remember that you are negatively special

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  • Believe. You truly have to believe that your love desire and yearning for a partner is the truth! Keep deciding that love is for you and I promise, it will be

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Fear is the biggest problem with singles today. We are so consumed with thoughts that just are not the truth. If you keep focusing on love and becoming love, your love life will start to shift. It is all about your mindset and setting an intention.

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Chasing Men

Ever find yourself so consumed with anxiety after a date? OMG, should I call him, text him, make him mine? What do I need to do? What about if I just send this message or picture? I know every woman has done this. I know I have. We all feel that we need to take so much action in our love life. We all feel if we say the wrong thing or make a mistake, he may not choose us. We all have this desire to join every dating app, dating site, dating event that ever existed in hopes to find our soulmate only to be disappointed. Chasing and hunting never works my friends. It is about inspired action with a clear and aligned heart. You won’t have to chase the right man. You won’t have to remind him of your existence. He will just know. He will know that you are the high quality woman he wants. Let him lead. Let him pursue. Let him chase you. Below are some tips to follow to not be the pursuer, but to be that desirable woman that is a man magnet.

 

  • Be confident. Sounds easy, right? Not so much. It takes inner work and awareness! You need to exude an authentic confidence. Your true essence. Really staying in your power and knowing your worth and what you deserve

 

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  • Be feminine and leaned back. Lean back, ladies! Know your worth. Stay in your feminine power. Men are hunters, you are not 😉

 

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  • Be willing to receive. Allow yourself to be and receive your desired man! You are the prize and worth pursuing. Make sure you fully receive this.

 

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Follow these tips and you will have men chasing you! Never having to chase them.

Fashion Tips For Women

Dating Fashion Tips for Women

 

Dating today is a challenge in itself, but having to worry about how you dress and look, only adds more pressure. The tips below will get you that second date! What you wear does matter because you only get one first impression.

 

  • Stay away from black:

Wear something bright and fun. Black can give off a serious and sad vibe

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  • Don’t wear a baggy or poor fitting outfit

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Don’t show up like a sloppy Sally or like you threw on a potato sack. Not a good look. Enough said.

 

  • Don’t wear a fancy over the top outfit –

Showing up like a Kardashian on a first date is not the best idea. Less is more. Men do not appreciate high maintenance but a natural beauty.

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  • Wear a dress

Men love dresses. Men love femininity. Show off your best assets! If you have killer legs, where a dress that emphasizes that.

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  • Don’t wear something he could

This seems like a no brainer but if he possibly has that t-shirt in his closet, it’s a no go. Men love feminine clothes so remember that!

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  • Wear your hair down.

96% of men love longer hair. Embrace that

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Follow these tips ladies, and you are well on your way to nailing that first date and making the ultimate first impression.

 

 

 

How To Be Irresistible To Men

Ever wonder how some women have men just flock and swoon over them with little to no effort? You see that girl with men always surrounding her or just worshipping the ground she walks on? You sit back and think, ” what does she have that I don’t?” First of all, it is your energy. A light, carefree, unattached, beautiful energy about yourself. It starts from within. It actually has nothing to do with your physical appearance. Men feel that carefree and light hearted nature. Not a desperate, oh my God, you need to pick me, energy. Some tips below will help you be a man magnet and get you the love that you deserve.

  • Confidence and eye contact

Confidence is so important and incredibly attractive to a man. Men love a woman who knows who she is and what she wants. Eye contact shows a man that you are approachable. Hold eye contact for 5 seconds ( yes, seems like an eternity) and flash a smile. He will be sure to come up to you.

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  • Sexiness Not Desperate

Not appearing too desperate or needy is very attractive to men. They do not want you to call or text a million times. They are attracted to a woman who is strong, independent, and has a life of her own.

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  • Humor

Women are not  the only ones who love to laugh! Men can’t help but find a funny woman irresistible. Funny, smart, beautiful? Men just can’t help but swoon. Wit and a great sense of humor out weigh any physical attractive trait.

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  • Up beat attitude

A bright outlook is such a sexy trait. Men find it to be refreshing and addicting to be around. Who likes a bleak personality? Ummm, no one. Smile, be carefree, and exude a loving disposition, and any man will fall for you.

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Follow these tips and you will be well on your way to finding that special someone!