Are you struggling being single? Do you feel that you put in a ton of effort but still have no dates, no men, no NOTHING? It is not that you are meant to be single, called to be single, or that the world is holding out on you. In fact, you are meant to have love! It is for you. It is your birthright. So, if you are looking for a sign, this is your sign. Love is just around the corner. It is about choosing love, being love, and most importantly, believing in love. Follow these tips below, and claim the love that is waiting for you!
In all moments, realize you can choose love or fear. Fear is the most common problem when single. Your ego tells you that you can’t have love, that maybe it is not meant for you, that there are no quality men or women, etc, etc. You in those moments of fear based thoughts, can choose love! See yourself as love and it will be here before you know it!
Love is not just for the special people. Love is for all! Remember that no one is more deserving for a soulmate. We all are! In times of doubt, remember that you are negatively special
Believe. You truly have to believe that your love desire and yearning for a partner is the truth! Keep deciding that love is for you and I promise, it will be
Fear is the biggest problem with singles today. We are so consumed with thoughts that just are not the truth. If you keep focusing on love and becoming love, your love life will start to shift. It is all about your mindset and setting an intention.
Dating today is a challenge in itself, but having to worry about how you dress and look, only adds more pressure. The tips below will get you that second date! What you wear does matter because you only get one first impression.
Stay away from black:
Wear something bright and fun. Black can give off a serious and sad vibe
Don’t wear a baggy or poor fitting outfit
Don’t show up like a sloppy Sally or like you threw on a potato sack. Not a good look. Enough said.
Don’t wear a fancy over the top outfit –
Showing up like a Kardashian on a first date is not the best idea. Less is more. Men do not appreciate high maintenance but a natural beauty.
Wear a dress
Men love dresses. Men love femininity. Show off your best assets! If you have killer legs, where a dress that emphasizes that.
Don’t wear something he could
This seems like a no brainer but if he possibly has that t-shirt in his closet, it’s a no go. Men love feminine clothes so remember that!
Wear your hair down.
96% of men love longer hair. Embrace that
Follow these tips ladies, and you are well on your way to nailing that first date and making the ultimate first impression.
What do men really need in a relationship and from their partner? It may not be exactly what you think! It is much more complicated than one would imagine. Every man is different and therefore has different wants and needs. Our culture is continuing to change and so are relationships. Relationships can be so complicated and are never the same day to day. The following tips will help guide you and create awareness to understanding your partner on a deeper level.
Having a warm and open heart
Men at times, have difficulty sharing their feelings, emotions, wants, needs, and fears. More than anything, they want a woman who they can be vulnerable with. They want a partner that they can share their deepest layer with. Someone whose heart is open to listen and be receptive.
Men love women who are good listeners and give them their time. Men will shut down if you do not make the time to listen to them or time for them in general. They need undivided and uninterrupted time spent. Men need this in order to really express who they are. Being positive and creating an upbeat space, really draws your man closer.
All people want respect. For men, this is huge! Men are always wanting to be appreciated and feel valued. They want to be encouraged and feel you are always rooting for them.
Men want space and time for themselves. They don’t want to feel they are on a leash 24/7. They want to enjoy their hobbies, interests, and friends. Respecting their time and space, will definitely make your relationship last.
Men love when you are just being you! Not pretending or trying so hard to be the ideal woman. They just want you to be your true self and no one else.
Men and women need to be attracted to their partner. This is so important and crucial. Without this, there is no foundation for a romantic connection.