Warning Signs

Have you ever wondered how you can weed out men or women online? Have you ever online dated and asked yourself..is this a red flag? Should I be concerned? Is he or she for real? If you have ever dated online or are new to it, there are definite signs that you need to pay attention to. Online dating has its pros and cons. You get to meet so many people you never would get the chance to in life! You can connect almost instantly to someone that meets your criteria. However, there are dangers that are involved like anything in life. To make your online dating experience one that is positive and successful, follow the tips below.

  1. Pay attention to if they write a very similar bio.
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If you see the same bio written multiple times and it just seems too much like a coincidence, it definitely is. ” I am a Christian, who loves sarcasm, and looking for a relationship.” I can not tell you how many people would tell me, ” Here we go again, another original bio with picture perfect images.

2. Every Picture is Perfect

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If ever photo looks like something out of a fashion shoot or looks too good to be true, it probably is. Pay attention to the photos were they do not seem to have a flaw. They usually are not a real person and are pretending to be someone that they are not. They never seem to have photos that really represent who they are or their life.

3. Their conversations are super short

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Pay attention if your matches barely make conversation and are afraid to elaborate. It is a red flag, if he or she is afraid to tell you details about their life. Pay attention to those who seem like they are hiding something. They usually are. Unfortunately, scammers exist.

4. They want to meet immediately

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You know something is not right if someone jumps to meeting up for a drink without barely getting to know a single fact about you. Some conversations need to take place. There is a lack of genuine character when someone can barely know your name or a single fact and has to meet ASAP. It is good to be proactive, but smart.

5. It just does not feel right.

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Trust your gut! It is always right.

Online dating can be a successful and fun tool. You have to be aware and savvy like anything in life. This will increase your chances of dating successfully.

Redefining Dating

Dating looks so much different now! Many feel it no longer exists because of the COVID-19 virus. Many are feeling hopeless because in person dating seems so impossible. Dating in fact is different, but it does not mean it is impossible to find love during this time! So much is possible and many beautiful outcomes can arise from a storm. Take this time in life to redefine yourself, dating, and finding true love. Many miracles can occur during hard times and difficult seasons of life. Follow these tips below to still date, find love, and better yourself.

  1. Get online- Before you roll your eyes at the thought of another dating site, app, or service, hear me out. There has been a huge increase of online dating and users. People now more than ever, want to find love! There are so many to choose from and you just never know how your soulmate will show up
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2. Exercise-

Get yourself moving! Exercise immediately increases your energy, confidence, endorphins, and just simply makes you feel more attractive. It will give you the little boost you need to feel more like a desirable catch not to mention the health benefits alone. Whether it be walking, at home workouts, a hike, try to exercise to get your confidence up. You will notice a difference in your dating life.

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3. Try A Virtual Date

Virtual Dating can be fun and requires minimal effort and planning! It takes a lot of the pressure off and you can simply connect and really get to know someone. It can be fun too! You can treat it like a real date and have dinner together, a glass of wine, coffee, or just simply have a great conversation. It can be a great start to a relationship and an amazing foundation.

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Take this time to really focus on yourself, becoming the best version of you, and exploring new things! Try that new dating app, try a virtual group, and get outside when you can. You may be surprised how love can find you in the most unexpected ways and times.

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Love is Constant

Times feel a little strange when it comes to dating. It may feel that the universe is playing a trick on you when you feel ready to mingle and meet new people, but a pandemic has put life and your dating life especially at a standstill. Have no fear! Hope is not gone during this time. Love is a constant and will always be there for the taking. Your love life does not have to stop, nor does it need to feel impossible. It may look a little different right now, but big love is still out there for you and will never cease. With summer approaching, summer love is still possible! Follow these tips below for dates even during this challenging time in the world.

  1. Get creative and get outside!

Try and get outside! All this time indoors and cooped up has caused us all to have a bit of cabin fever. There is nothing better than a hike, a walk, a picnic ( 6 feet apart of course 🙂 ) or just sitting on a bench, chatting the day away. Get to know your date in a fun, casual, and outdoors kind of way.

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2. Try a new outdoor activity

Playing volleyball, shooting hoops, a tennis match, or a fun round of golf. These make for a perfect outdoor date! Who doesn’t love a little competition, right? You may learn a thing or two.

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3. If you still feel like it is not safe to date in person, continue skype and Facetime.

There is nothing wrong with taking it slow and getting to know your date during this time. It can really allow for a deeper and more meaningful connection. You get to know your date on a truer level and are not distracted by the fancy restaurant, expensive wine, or just overall atmosphere that can sometimes be misleading. It has its benefits to really get to know someone at a slower pace.

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Keep the faith! Keep dating, and Keep being creative with the men and women you meet. It will make for a good story one day.

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Love Is Not Quarantined

If you are single, it can be a scary time on your search for love. You feel as though life is on hold and that meeting your special someone is out of reach. It may seem that way, but what about changing your perspective??…

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Now can be the perfect time for love! Love does not stop nor does wanting a relationship. There are still so many opportunities for connection, romance, and dating. Look at the bright side, somewhere right now, somebody is quarantined with your ex! Ha! If that does not inspire you 😉 Follow the tips below for some way to still put love, dating, and relationships first.

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1.Try online dating! If online dating is not your thing, try it anyway! Try a new and fun app. You just never know how love will find you! Just make sure to represent yourself in the best light

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2. Try a virtual dating event. Lots of companies are doing virtual speed dating events for people to meet and chat. Your match could be there or worst case, you meet some really cool people.

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3. Try playing matchmaker with your friends. Get some pals together and everyone think of a match for that person. You can skype, talk on the phone, and just get to know a new person without any pressure

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4. Take this time to become the best version of you. Take this down time to learn a new skill, get in incredible shape, work on your personal development, your spirituality, and just overall self improvement. Your future partner will appreciate it

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Follow these tips and love during quarantine can still happen! Love is right around the corner. Stay healthy and safe.

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Interview with Fhenny Style Frontier

I had the chance to chat with Fhenny with Style Frontier ( stylefrontier.com @stylefrontier), an incredible travel blogger. Of course, the questions had to involve dating, love, and everything in between 😉 Definitely check her out!

1. What is your go-to first date outfit? What do you recommend for making a stylish first impression?An A-line dress or a sheath type of dresses would be perfect. To make a stylish first impression, you have to wear something that fits you well in terms of cutting and size. You can add little accessories like earrings or a necklace and wear classic pump heels.

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2. What is your favorite place to go on a date?Definitely a good restaurant or a coffee shop if it is a more casual date. I love finding new restaurants and trying different types of coffee.

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3. What inspires your fashion style? Who is your favorite designer?I get my inspiration from the magazine, blogs, and also the characters from my favourite movies! My favourite designers are Valentino Garavani and Phoebe Philo.

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4. Who is your dream crush?Should be Hugh Jackman hahaha


5. What is the best advice on the love you have ever received?A relationship is a place to give, not so much on receiving. Therefore you have to love yourself first and grow yourself first so that you have so much more love to give.

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6. Describe your dream vacation.Staying at an overwater villa while soaking in the sun and relaxing all day would be nice!

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7. What qualities do you look for in a person?Honesty, integrity, kindness, compassion, know what they want to be in life, and have full love for life in general.

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8. What are your biggest pet peeves?People who are not consistent and liars. 


9. What has been the best accomplishment you have achieved?Build stylefrontier.com, have a good career in a digital marketing field and manage to travel solo to a new destination every year.


10. What do you hope to achieve in 2020?I hope to be more balance in different aspects of my life. Be it a career, relationship, wellness, as well as the travel experience.

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Valentines Day is Fast Approaching

It is almost that time again! Either the dreaded day for all singles or a blissful day for couples. Nothing screams, “Single Awareness Day” than Valentine’s Day. You still have time though! You still have time to plan a romantic date, find an amazing partner, and have the best Valentine’s Day yet!

If you are single: Whether it is getting on a dating app or networking through friends, your future partner is waiting for you! Your first date may even be on Valentine’s Day! How romantic would that be?! Below are some fun Valentine’s Day ideas so you can not be scrambling for ideas at the last minute.

A romantic wine bar

Nothing is more romantic than dim lighting, a beautiful ambiance, and some red wine. Every city has a fun wine bar that exudes romance. Start making a reservation.

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A new restaurant in town

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Research new restaurants in your town! Big cities have new places opening all the time. Do some homework and find a new place that will definitely impress your date

Definitely buy flowers

Gentleman, buy the girl some flowers. Point made.

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Go to a dessert bar

Nothing screams romance like dessert..chocolate, fondue, strawberries, champagne. This idea will not disappoint!

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Beach.

If you live near the beach in a warmer climate, a romantic sunset with wine and chocolates is definitely a date to not be forgotten

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I hope these ideas are of help! I want this to be the Best Valentine’s Day yet! If you do not end up with a date this year, treat yourself! Your love is waiting or you and will come.

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Finding Love This Year

Welcome to 2020!! We all have goals, desires, and wishes for the new year. Intentions that we set that we are determined to fulfill! Many of you, want to find that dream partner. Why not let this be the year for love!! It is proven that January is the best month for love and finding a partner. Can we say, ” Love is in the air?” Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and why not get serious about finding your person. Set an intention and really focus on it. Focus on the feeling of love and being with your guy or gal.

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I want to challenge you to write down your top 5 qualities you must have in a mate. Write down why you want that! Focus on the feelings that qualities emit. If you love a tall man.. why? Besides the obvious 🙂 On a serious note, what makes you love someone tall? Is is because they make you feel feminine, safe, small? Focus on how that feels? Maybe you want someone with a huge heart? Focus on what that feels like! Feelings of love, happiness, true joy!

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Become those feelings that others can’t help but be drawn to you and your essence.

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I challenge you to write a gratitude list for the next 21 days and focus on being so thankful for all you have now while your desires come to you. Before you know it, you will have your dream man or woman by your side. So for 2020, really declare big dreams! Declare big love. Go for it this year. If you needed a sign, here it is. Love is now. Love is for you.

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Single During The Holidays

AHHH the holidays can be not sorry merry and bright for everyone! When you are single and really wanting love, Christmas and NYE are not the most enjoyable experience. When you constantly hear, ” When are you going to settle down, When are you getting married, Are you really still single??” Sounds wonderful, right? I have hope for you! Follow the tips below and 2020 will be your year for love!

  1. Own your singleness, knowing love is inevitable

Love is meant for you! The fact that you desire it in your heart, means it is for you! Keep believing and expecting and it will show up faster than you think

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2. You are currently attracting the love of your life

You are creating! Love is happening for you! You will keep believing until you receive

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3. 2020 is a new Year meant for new changes

Embrace the new year, knowing that so much can happen and will happen!

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4. Things change and so will your love life

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Remember, life changes so fast! Your love could appear at any moment so keep expecting! Try new things and love will show up!

Set an intention for 2020 for BIG LOVE!!

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Love Vs Fear

Are you struggling being single? Do you feel that you put in a ton of effort but still have no dates, no men, no NOTHING? It is not that you are meant to be single, called to be single, or that the world is holding out on you. In fact, you are meant to have love! It is for you. It is your birthright. So, if you are looking for a sign, this is your sign. Love is just around the corner. It is about choosing love, being love, and most importantly, believing in love. Follow these tips below, and claim the love that is waiting for you!

  • In all moments, realize you can choose love or fear. Fear is the most common problem when single. Your ego tells you that you can’t have love, that maybe it is not meant for you, that there are no quality men or women, etc, etc. You in those moments of fear based thoughts, can choose love! See yourself as love and it will be here before you know it!

 

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  • Love is not just for the special people. Love is for all! Remember that no one is more deserving for a soulmate. We all are! In times of doubt, remember that you are negatively special

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  • Believe. You truly have to believe that your love desire and yearning for a partner is the truth! Keep deciding that love is for you and I promise, it will be

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Fear is the biggest problem with singles today. We are so consumed with thoughts that just are not the truth. If you keep focusing on love and becoming love, your love life will start to shift. It is all about your mindset and setting an intention.

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Chasing Men

Ever find yourself so consumed with anxiety after a date? OMG, should I call him, text him, make him mine? What do I need to do? What about if I just send this message or picture? I know every woman has done this. I know I have. We all feel that we need to take so much action in our love life. We all feel if we say the wrong thing or make a mistake, he may not choose us. We all have this desire to join every dating app, dating site, dating event that ever existed in hopes to find our soulmate only to be disappointed. Chasing and hunting never works my friends. It is about inspired action with a clear and aligned heart. You won’t have to chase the right man. You won’t have to remind him of your existence. He will just know. He will know that you are the high quality woman he wants. Let him lead. Let him pursue. Let him chase you. Below are some tips to follow to not be the pursuer, but to be that desirable woman that is a man magnet.

 

  • Be confident. Sounds easy, right? Not so much. It takes inner work and awareness! You need to exude an authentic confidence. Your true essence. Really staying in your power and knowing your worth and what you deserve

 

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  • Be feminine and leaned back. Lean back, ladies! Know your worth. Stay in your feminine power. Men are hunters, you are not 😉

 

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  • Be willing to receive. Allow yourself to be and receive your desired man! You are the prize and worth pursuing. Make sure you fully receive this.

 

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Follow these tips and you will have men chasing you! Never having to chase them.