Are you struggling being single? Do you feel that you put in a ton of effort but still have no dates, no men, no NOTHING? It is not that you are meant to be single, called to be single, or that the world is holding out on you. In fact, you are meant to have love! It is for you. It is your birthright. So, if you are looking for a sign, this is your sign. Love is just around the corner. It is about choosing love, being love, and most importantly, believing in love. Follow these tips below, and claim the love that is waiting for you!
In all moments, realize you can choose love or fear. Fear is the most common problem when single. Your ego tells you that you can’t have love, that maybe it is not meant for you, that there are no quality men or women, etc, etc. You in those moments of fear based thoughts, can choose love! See yourself as love and it will be here before you know it!
Love is not just for the special people. Love is for all! Remember that no one is more deserving for a soulmate. We all are! In times of doubt, remember that you are negatively special
Believe. You truly have to believe that your love desire and yearning for a partner is the truth! Keep deciding that love is for you and I promise, it will be
Fear is the biggest problem with singles today. We are so consumed with thoughts that just are not the truth. If you keep focusing on love and becoming love, your love life will start to shift. It is all about your mindset and setting an intention.
Ever wonder how some women have men just flock and swoon over them with little to no effort? You see that girl with men always surrounding her or just worshipping the ground she walks on? You sit back and think, ” what does she have that I don’t?” First of all, it is your energy. A light, carefree, unattached, beautiful energy about yourself. It starts from within. It actually has nothing to do with your physical appearance. Men feel that carefree and light hearted nature. Not a desperate, oh my God, you need to pick me, energy. Some tips below will help you be a man magnet and get you the love that you deserve.
Confidence and eye contact
Confidence is so important and incredibly attractive to a man. Men love a woman who knows who she is and what she wants. Eye contact shows a man that you are approachable. Hold eye contact for 5 seconds ( yes, seems like an eternity) and flash a smile. He will be sure to come up to you.
Sexiness Not Desperate
Not appearing too desperate or needy is very attractive to men. They do not want you to call or text a million times. They are attracted to a woman who is strong, independent, and has a life of her own.
Women are not the only ones who love to laugh! Men can’t help but find a funny woman irresistible. Funny, smart, beautiful? Men just can’t help but swoon. Wit and a great sense of humor out weigh any physical attractive trait.
Up beat attitude
A bright outlook is such a sexy trait. Men find it to be refreshing and addicting to be around. Who likes a bleak personality? Ummm, no one. Smile, be carefree, and exude a loving disposition, and any man will fall for you.
Follow these tips and you will be well on your way to finding that special someone!